My old boss’ 11 year old son was really upset that he was not doing well at tennis and kept coming 2nd in most things. My boss got me to print out some words of encouragement on some small pieces of paper so that he could read them and gain focus. They led off with “Excuses are for losers” and “2nd place is for those who don’t care about winning in their life”… And those two were the nicest ones. WTF??? FAIL!!!!!!!!!!!